Should Cheryl dump Ashley?
Posted by Jane Murphy
Oh dear! Despite Cheryl Cole's pledges to stand by her man, the Girls Aloud star's relatives are reportedly urging her to dump husband Ashley after fresh tabloid allegations appeared about him over the weekend.
In yesterday's News of the World, Cheryl revealed she's known about Ash's "night of shame" for weeks - and although she's furious about his boozy shenanigans with 22-year-old hairdresser Aimee Walton, she doesn't believe he actually cheated on her.
The reason? She "knows for a fact" he "isn't capable when he's under the influence". She adds: "I was so angry, so frustrated that Ashley couldn't remember what on earth had gone on apart from him being sick."
The couple have apparently been locked in crisis talks all weekend - and are both determined to save their marriage. However, one relative told the Daily Mirror: "If he can't be trusted, she should walk away."
So should Cheryl really give her footie star husband the boot - or can they still make their marriage work? Tell us what you think.
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i think they should stay together 4 ever and get things sorted.
i also think she should sit down and talk and if she can't handle it she should walk away.
good luck 2 her
Posted by: bob frank | 23 April 2009 at 15:38
what can you say about ashley cole,with a wife like cheryl only a complete idiot would even think about cheating on her.she looks absolutely gorgeous.
once a cheat always cheat,move on cheryl get someone who really loves you !
Posted by: Richard pievaitis | 22 April 2009 at 12:07
Ger rid of this rat not worth it,i know what's it's like had it done on me,plenty more fish in the sea,but has they say ywo sides to a story,ans has they always say once a cheat always a cheat!
DUMP HIM I SAY!
Posted by: Elaine | 22 August 2008 at 14:13
Its Up To Her!!!! Nobody Can change her mind and that is that! just let her be and if she goes back to him then she must love him!! It is To do with noone else but them and the press are just going to make it worse because they point out all the BAD things and never point out the good so they cant just simply sort it out without the media getting their noses in on the gossip!!
Posted by: Fran | 08 May 2008 at 21:32
Who gives a monkeys !!!
Posted by: Ripsnort | 01 April 2008 at 16:04
u peeps r sme h8rz 4 real! let dem b..if she wanna get bk 2geder wif im let her afta all it her bloody choice nd as 4 u nicola wat uv possibly been tru wid guys aint necesarily how ash is gunna treat cheryl!
stop tryna sway her!
Posted by: F3ND3R-6-B3ND3R | 01 April 2008 at 16:03
shes a big mouth deserve each other
Posted by: joyce thorne | 01 April 2008 at 14:37
Cheryl , dump him, Ashley dump her, try doing something for charity ,or become a nurse or a teacher its good for your little brain
Posted by: Jim Smith | 01 April 2008 at 14:13
who really cares they deserve each other, gold diggers and cheaters, spending money on extraganvances that would feed a whole third world country, and give a genuine happy loving couple a big help on the housing ladder, and this is my first and last post as the majority of people on here help keep these people in the lifestyles most people can only dream of, when they have invented the cure for cancer maybe they will deserve a bit of recognition
Posted by: John | 01 April 2008 at 13:19
great to see you at the brits enjoying yourself love your new song and video speak french ashley must be kicking his self as you are a great and stunning women hope you have happiness what ever you decide to do us fans are behind you
Posted by: jan | 23 February 2008 at 21:40
i think cheryl should get rid of ashley she can do alot better than that cheating rat.no-one deserves to be cheated on or be humiliated in such a public way.he`ll do it again once a cheat always a cheat.
Posted by: carmen | 20 February 2008 at 11:52
Why can't everybody just leave this lass alone, she's so young and hurting like hell. If she loves him then why shouldn't they be together. The only thing to consider is respecting HERSELF. I just hope if they do decide to try again he will realise that being married means, loyalty, trust and respect towards the other person.
Posted by: Dianne | 19 February 2008 at 14:03
O my gosh u lot get a life, all the girls on here who wana sl*g cheryl off is because ur all jealous of how she is living the high life and we have nuffin beta 2 do than make comments about her, i think it is none of our business and Cheryl will come to her senses and see whats best 4 her whether its forgiving him or chuckin him x
Posted by: Dee | 17 February 2008 at 15:00
i like cheryl and voted for her to make it even though i stood for hours a few months ago to get her autograph at newcastle and she totally stuck her nose up and egnored me and others which was very upsetting when it was our voting that got her into the band but other than that take time to think things through your self no one can tell you what to do in your marriage only you can decide if you can trust ashley again love is a funny thing i been there my self still think you great performer stick at it
Posted by: jantie | 16 February 2008 at 21:41
Cheryl...get rid of him....and everyone else stop slagging off V Beckham....cos one person can only take so much nasty slander you horrible lot.
Posted by: maz | 16 February 2008 at 10:43
Come slap me OMG.
Cheryl is a trog, and i hope every man she ever meets cheats on her.
Posted by: Anna | 06 February 2008 at 14:47
Some of the people on here need a right good slap! FOul mouthed disgusting specimens of human beings. You're worse than a cheating Ashley! Whatever she does it's her call...none of our business and we've no right to say she deserved it. Who 'deserves' to be treated like that eh? Get a life people.
Posted by: OMG | 06 February 2008 at 12:14
Well all i can say is that my fella went school with Ashely and he is exactly the same. He cheated on me and i took him back time after time, it as now been 10 years we finally broken up. He eventually cheated on me 6 times that i knew of (they never change). So Cheryl as much as it gonna hurt you, your best off getting rid of him now. Or if your gonna take him back make sure he as learnt his lesson, otherwise he will never have no respect for u.
Wish u all the best.
Posted by: Bee | 06 February 2008 at 10:45
1234 wot r u on about u cheated on him 1st how do u think he will feel never mind ur feelings, u little s*lut u deserved it if u ask me
Posted by: yo | 05 February 2008 at 18:55
Yesssss
She Is Mint And Deserves Someone Who Treats Her Like A Princess.
Posted by: roxanne | 04 February 2008 at 18:15
Dump him! Hes had unprotected sex with other women, why put your health in jeapordy. Posh is a laughing stock for sticking with her man. Dont be the same, Cheryl, you are worth better than that. We know you LOVE him but quite frankly i dont think you will be able to forgive and forget , you are much stronger than Posh is. Its easier to stay, harder to go, but you can do it.
Posted by: Gucci69 | 04 February 2008 at 14:38
I think it is completely up to Cheryl what she does. I have been recently cheated on by my long term boyfriend an it has completely ruined me!! Not only did he cheat on me, after telling me and me deciding to forgive him he told me he didn't want to be with me!! I think that guys who are in the lime light are easy targets for girls who have nothing better to do with themselves!! I hope I will pull through this a stronger person than I am right now!! Cheryl.......do what your heart is telling you...mine told me to forgive as I loved him so much but unfortunatly it turned sour for me!!!
Posted by: 12345 | 04 February 2008 at 14:31
I think that cheryl is strong and would know what to do. Maybe ashley has a reason for doing what he did. But i still think that cheryl has to be strong and get over him. It would be nice for them to get back as they were a nice couple.!!!!!
Posted by: laura xx | 03 February 2008 at 10:40
Dump him!!!
Posted by: Loren | 03 February 2008 at 10:17
DUMP HIM - DUMP HIM - YOU'LL BE SORRY IF YOU DONT, HE WILL ONLY DO IT AGAIN AND THEN WE WILL ALL SAY ' TOLD YOU SO' -
HE IS A SNEAKY LITTLE WORM WHO SWINGS BOTH WAYS - DUMP HIM DONT END UP LIKE POSH A LAUGHING STOCK - WE ALL KNOW BECKHAM SLEPT WITH REBECKA LOOS - IF HE DID'NT WHY DID'NT HE SUE HER? NO, BECAUSE HE TOO SLEPT AROUND AND STILL DOES, THEY ALL DO IT - REALLY THEY DO.
Posted by: Bobby Bigballs | 02 February 2008 at 23:58
Serves you right cheryl , youre a horrible little geordie tramp that cant sing. Please take him back then in a few weeks time when hes has 2 pints of shandy a screws his manucurist we can all laugh at you again. What goes around comes around cheryl and you have a nasty tongue bitching about other female singers so reap the whirlwind you dirty little tramp ha ha ha tastes good dont it xx
Posted by: slacker | 02 February 2008 at 21:04
This is none of our business. The sooner people stop trying to make money out of others misery, whether they are celebrities or not, the better the world will be.
Posted by: Burge | 02 February 2008 at 18:29
This is none of our business. The sooner people stop trying to make money out of others misery, whether they are celebrities or not, the better the world will be.
Posted by: Burge | 02 February 2008 at 18:28
Take him back cheryl so we can all enjoy it when he cheats on you again you nasty little tramp. serves you right for all the horrible things you've said about other people especially Lilly Allen. She has talent and you don't. Anyway, the ginger one in girls aloud is prettier than you, you're ugly and you can't sing.
Posted by: Andy | 02 February 2008 at 16:26
Yes she should she is very pretty and doesn't need a man like him to be next to her as well she lost her trust, you are independent you don't need him for anything.
Posted by: andrea | 01 February 2008 at 22:16
Ashley, you got caught, pay her and move on, next time make sure she signs a Pre-Nuptial. You are always going to stray and you are always going to be a target (while you are a footballer anyway). Stop sulking and move on.
Posted by: Yeah Right! | 01 February 2008 at 17:45
get rid of the cheat cheryl is so pretty he doest desive u dump the scum
Posted by: melanie williams | 01 February 2008 at 17:35
give that scum another chance...work at your marriage.....yeh right....a few months of marriage and he`s off screwing around with slappers inc....and what if he has given cheryl some std or other....no it is a shock but cheryl you will get over this total waste of space...DUMP HIM....oh and check yourself into the docs just to be sure....
Posted by: you are kidding | 01 February 2008 at 17:11
I think that celebrities, rush into marriage, most of them are all the same they think because they have money and status they know it all..... they dont seem to spend the time getting to know each other properly and stop examing each others bank accounts and spending time together like normal people before having fantasticly lavish weddings and then when it all goes wrong they divorce at the first opportunity,Marriage is hardwork and shouldnt be thrown aside at the first arguement.Its nice to have lots of money but it doesnt buy you love or faithful partners, some of the strongest marriages are between people who have have lots of difficulties and no money ...thats true love How can these two or in deed any celebrity work out thier problems when every sleazy magazine and newspaper is flashing thier story all over the front pages.
Posted by: Kim | 01 February 2008 at 17:05
The only people that care about these two are the people who buy these silly tabloid magazines and keep these so called celebs earning hard cash out of it. Sad people and those two are a waste of space, send them to oblivion.
Posted by: fed up with WAGs | 01 February 2008 at 15:15
no, no, no, she shouldn't walk away. Part of what is wrong with our society today is that no-one wants to put the work into anything. As soon as the going gets tough they bale out and leave others to pick up the peices. If she is the strong independent woman everyone says, she will stay and fight for her marriage. Walking is the easy option. I speak from experience as it happened to me after 13 years of marriage and 3 kids. I have now been married for 37 years - yes to that same man. You can re-build the trust. Give it a go Cheryl
Posted by: ruth | 01 February 2008 at 14:57
she's not my favourite person and she's got an opinion on everyone, but at the end of the day it's not as if it's just the once that he's cheated. If she lived in the real world what would she do? You got it the same as all the rest of us kick him to the kerb. The man (and that's used loosely) is a waste of space. He needs his b**** kicked. She needs to pick herself up and get on with her life without him. As for that thing that he slept with last she's no better than him, she must have met him in the gutter. No morals either of them! Cheryl get yourself to the nearest std clinic
Posted by: LOL | 01 February 2008 at 14:55
She should definately get shot of him ..as for advice from skeletor beckham ...er I mean the gorgeous victoria ( hhuuppptt) we can only imagine her advice is based on the fact being a talentless money grabber who bases her whole life around making the most cash she can her principles are governed by where the most profit is.
ME accuse these sad women of being nothing more than prostitutes for fame and cash...ooo never...
Well maybe only on a day with a 'y' in it. But seeing as none of them can probably spell any day of the week they wouldn't know that.
Posted by: mandi | 01 February 2008 at 13:29
Who cares
Posted by: dfc | 31 January 2008 at 23:29
Only Cheryl knows whether she can forgive him. Years ago I would have said leave him but I have learnt that too many people think marriage is easy. It isn't ! However if she's lost all trust in him, it isn't worth staying.
Posted by: Hannah | 31 January 2008 at 20:51
OMG why? how could anybody cheat on her she is gorgeous i think she should leave him for good he isnt worth it if they cheat once then they will obviously do it again. Once someone cheats how can anybody trust them again if they go behind your back then the trust goes out of your window. Cheryl can easily get better, someone who doesnt need to go behind her back she needs to be strong and show him that she doesnt need him. GET SOMEONE WHO REALLY CARES!! cheryl is gorgeous she should have a hard job finding someone who loves her.
Posted by: Katie | 31 January 2008 at 19:27
stay and work things out, these girls wil do whatever it takes for money.
Posted by: fifi | 31 January 2008 at 19:19
Why even ask that question she should****in get rid of him
Posted by: Abbey | 31 January 2008 at 19:17
Why even ask that question she should****in get rid of him
Posted by: Abbey | 31 January 2008 at 19:16
i think she should stand by her man this time,as everyone deserves a second chance, but if in a few months she finds herself in this situation again then no second chances as this was the ultimate betrayl.
Posted by: zoe dunning | 31 January 2008 at 17:25
dear cherly stop and think its public so if he did do it he will be whatched all the time from now on u r a strong person you have great mates listen to your heart do what u think is wright forgive make up or go on youre own way only u can decide i went back the second time i can say the making up was fun but youre always thinking were what who with yes we did split after a while due to him cheating but i am very happy with the love of my life now and i dont have no regrets about my past all the best for the future youre not on youre own xxxxx
Posted by: tina | 31 January 2008 at 17:02
Forgive but dont forget, every one is at it, celebrity or taxi driver, in a totaly honest world everyone would be divorced.Stay & make it work your married.
Posted by: roofdocta | 31 January 2008 at 16:58
I think she should get rid of him. She's pathetic anyway she goes around critising other peoples lives and then she gets cheated on. She asked for it. & the fact that Ashley can't even remember what happened is just a cover up.
Posted by: Katie | 31 January 2008 at 16:56
haha haha u deserve it
Posted by: louise | 31 January 2008 at 16:50
Who cares, lets face it there are two criteria to be a wag and they are, wags swallow and will take it up the backside. Too many premiership footballers partners are quite prepared to turn a blind eye to the immoral actions of their so called loved ones. For example, Posh Beckham, Coleen,you know Rooneys mrs, Frank Lampards partner, well you could go on and on. These women know that if they were not with their respective partners we would never hear about them again until they manage to snare another prem footballer.All they are interested in is being in the spotlight and having loads of money to spend whilst doing very little for it except laying back and thinking of England and worrying about messing up their latest nail job or hairstyle!!! There are of course a few exeptions to the above, those that come to mind are Louise Rednapp and Harry Kewells lovely wife to name a couple. Anyway wags deserve all they get if they want all the trappings that go with the job then they have got to accept what their man gets up to...There are plenty of decent working class lads out there but going out with one of them will not get them into a flash nightclub or on the front page of some crap glossy magazine.
Posted by: Gary | 31 January 2008 at 15:54
I Think she should definatly get rid of him, she deserves so much better than that, how he could cheat on her i dont know, hes scum in my eyes and should be ashamed of himself i agree with nicola: once a cheat, always a cheat.
thinking of ya Cheryl, chin up girl!!! xxxxx
Posted by: Zoe | 31 January 2008 at 14:56
Get rid, somethings you can get over in a marriage, but this is one thing you will carry with you forever. If he has the cheek and nerve to say that he cannot remember what hes done you can never trust him on a night out ever again. I think this is just a really crap and insulting excuse to wriggle out of what he done, and if she believes him shes a fool.( surely you arent that stupid) Obviously he has proved that he does not think much of Cheryl. Get out while you can and there is only yourselve to think about.
Posted by: CLARE | 31 January 2008 at 14:31
If this is a one off, then I say she should forgive him if she can and wants to. If not, and there are other infidelities, then get out of there now!
Posted by: | 31 January 2008 at 14:10
oh dear, just another story bout a footballer going astray..tut tut...the pair married to young,they have separate lives,she concentrates on her career away form him,what else was he to do.its tuff love ,she wants the fame and fortune but cant keep her man happy aswell.she is high maintenance,mouthy and precious,most men just want normality and dont want to wait around allday for a woman to have her make up done before she goes to bed with him.as far as im concerned we havent heard much about the relationship as a whole,it may of been that they were on the rocks etc and he was drinking alot drowning sorrows for never seeing her.marriage means commitment and them living apart from each othe proves there lack of interest.they probably just were in love with the thought of being happily married,however they did not understand the depths to a happy and long marriage..
Posted by: shay | 31 January 2008 at 13:46
Try to work things out. We all make mistakes it does not mean it will happen again. Follow your gut feeling. Have some time apart and take it from there.
Posted by: hayley | 31 January 2008 at 13:39
I still can't believe he's gone and cheated on the most gorgeous lookin woman in showbiz.Come on Chez,u can av anyone in the world.Dump the tosser!!
Posted by: Sheryl | 31 January 2008 at 11:52
Simple answer: because I genuinely care about more important things than this ...and wanted to show an alternative viewpoint to whats been typed already !.After that its for you to make up your own minds and fight over trivialities .Goodnight !
Posted by: who the **** cares | 30 January 2008 at 23:09
reply to who the **** cares if you don't care why's ur blog the longest?
Posted by: katie | 30 January 2008 at 19:27
DUMP THE LITTLE SCROAT CHERYL.
Dont put up with it like posh does - she's a laughing stock we all know Becks shagged Bekki - go now Cheryl otherwise we will be writing another blog next year when he does it again and then everyone will say 'we told you so' he's not that nice infact if I saw him in the street I would'nt look twice at him - come on girl be strong and walk away you dont need him you're a star in your own right.
Posted by: Arsenal | 30 January 2008 at 17:35
So, another footballer has allegedly cheated on another pop star wife ???
Who cares who is doing what to who,or where and when ?.
Celebrities or otherwise,it really doesnt matter to anyone but the people involved.
If a paper, magazine,or web page like this can make money, or generate interest out of stories about peoples weight loss, pregnancy,cheating lovers/spouse then its a very sad world...
More still that people who do not know those involved, and only read about it in afore mentioned places then choose to gossip and make comments about it...
Get a life people ! , worry about your own lives, wives, partners, parents, kids welfare which are far more important.....
There are more interesting things in life than a bunch of A-Z list celebs who cant keep their trousers on, or go on diets etc and court publicity...
Theres a big wide world out there...Why not go and join it, do something useful, and campaign for human injustice, or raise cash to feed the starving....Rather than gossiping about people you dont know.
Putting them on pedastals as so called role models /fashion icons for kids to look up to will solve nothing . It merely generates another generation of wannabe media propelled non entities from the likes of Big Brother seeking national acclaim with limited or no talent .
Posted by: WHO the **** Cares ? | 30 January 2008 at 17:29
All I can say is... it was inevitable! They say don't tar them ALL with the same brush. Best part of them think 'Do You Know Who I Am??' and think they can get away with anything, especially being UNFAITHFULL!! Cheryl, a Geordie I know.. (i am a mackem)but she is stunning, rich and can have anyone if she wanted. What a d*** and could lose her for what?? That Cheap Bit of Scruffy! Although I DO AGREE.. Once a Cheat, ALWAYS a Cheat!!!! Trust is a Killer.
Good Luck Cherly. x
Posted by: Donna | 30 January 2008 at 17:13
The damage has been done and doubt Cheryl will every be able to truly trust Ashley again. She is young enough to move on and find someone who truly respects her and adores her.
The women who slept with him are no better than he is; being the Coles are very much in the public eye, before and after they were married, means any women sleeping with him knew full well who he was and who he was with! They were in it for the publicity and cash no doubt.
Cheryl is far to good for Ashley. She is a lovely homely, stunning girl and could do far better than a footballer!
Feel for Cheryl as nothing is private in celeb land.
Hope the press can back off and respect their privacy.
Posted by: Jo | 30 January 2008 at 17:01
dump the overpaid arrogant rubbish footballer!!!!
Posted by: nigel | 30 January 2008 at 16:52
I feel really sorry for anyone who has been cheated on, but to have it in the public eye must be a nightmare. I think everyone deserves a second chance, but if it happens again, then get rid. As for the other woman, she is just scum!
Posted by: Kirsty | 30 January 2008 at 16:42
do what you think is right cheryl, its your life, i wish the press and everyone would leave her alone to come to terms with his infidelaty, and then she can decide whats best without the pressure. bless you cheryl.:)
Posted by: michelle | 30 January 2008 at 16:41
personaly i think she should dump him. as rich as he is he should never of cheated! i have meet cheryl and she is a lovly girl, she deservs better then ashley.no one knows what has happened behind closed doors, so i think the public and press should just leave them both in peace to think this all over. just give the people some space will you.
love yoo cheryl Xx
Posted by: louise | 30 January 2008 at 16:21
Take him for all you can then dump him!!
Posted by: Val | 30 January 2008 at 16:07
I personally think Cheryl should dump him, there have been so many stories in the past but only this time he has been caught. Cheryl is too good a person to be treated like this. Hopefully she wont be silly and keep him and then have a baby and then have to dump him for doing the same again!!!!!
Posted by: coleen | 30 January 2008 at 16:05
forgive him... hes good looking and has got plenty of cash....
Posted by: jonny | 30 January 2008 at 15:57
hi.
i think the hairdresser just made up the storey for money, shes jelous of chery and ashley. they should be left alone to sort things out.
Posted by: naomi | 30 January 2008 at 15:54
I think Cheryl is very brave to still go on as normal while having to deal with her husband's infedelity in the public eye. If she loves him as much as I think she does, she will stay with him and work it out. As a Mackem, I normally like to get at Geordies whenever possible but this is another matter. As a wife of 29 years and mother of three, I think it is important to work things out together and make no mistake she should lay down the law in plain terms that if he even goes near another girl, albeit the hords of pathetic women who pray on footballers just for the kiss and tell money, she will leave him. Everyone makes a mistake and they should have one chance to put things right. If they don't then they don't deserve another chance.
Posted by: Sandra Evenden | 30 January 2008 at 15:45
i think they should be left alone to sort things out, and that hairdresser should of know better.
Posted by: shell | 30 January 2008 at 15:44
OH dear another footballer gone astray, yet more tarnish on the decent males of this society. Why on earth do men do this, two things firstly he is living the life most young men dream off ( i did but didnt quite make the grade)second he has a good looking wife and should be happy with that. being drunk is no excuse in fact its worse he should have been more responsible!!! the guys a loser and he WILL do the same again as most people in his position dont learn from their mistakes...Cos they think they are better than everyone else.
Posted by: Phil | 30 January 2008 at 15:22
dump him and marry joe cole or carlton cole then you can keep same name
Posted by: punk | 30 January 2008 at 15:14
It's a shame. They had that big showy wedding, how long ago? Why on earth do footballers continue to get so intoxicated and compromise everything. In the cold light of day and sober i wonder just how worth it it was. I imagine he is sorry for what he has done and if he could turn back the clock he would. From Cheryls point of view she must be wondering what sort of a relationship she has got if all it takes to ruin it is a night on the booze and a willing blonde.
She might feel worthless and humiliated right now and her family and friends will be helping her cope.The question is will she be made to feel like that again in the future if she forgives him she is taking that risk. Is he really worth it Cheryl? It is painful either way she decides.Good luck girl.
Posted by: Cath | 30 January 2008 at 15:06
Dump him m8 hes not worth hanging on to.Hes a LOSER!!!!
Posted by: suzie...London | 30 January 2008 at 15:02
Dump the scum
Posted by: John | 30 January 2008 at 14:52
ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT I KNOW I HAVE HAD IT DONE TO ME,A LEOPARD NEVER CHANGES HIS SPOTS,GET RID RID OF HIM YOU CAN DO BETTER!
Posted by: elaine | 30 January 2008 at 14:42
I feel sorry for her - being cheated by your hubby is bad enough (been there) ... infact it's your worst nightmare. But having the whole world know is even worse . Ok so shes rich - who cares .. shes still human and it will hurt her as much as the next person. I bet she'd rather be skint and have a faithful hubby than all those bucks in the bank.
I reckon they'll probably split up anyway - there are no kiddies to keep them together .
Posted by: claudia | 30 January 2008 at 14:36
Dump him dump him dump him !!!! Go find a better man, he's a loser. He can't be trusted.
Posted by: Mary Jean Grimshaw | 30 January 2008 at 14:24
Yeh Cheryl dump him he has always been a creepy bloke who sold out the ARSENAL. The little sneak went behind our backs to talk to Chelski he cant be trusted get out now while you can and find someone more genuine.
Posted by: Bobby Bigballs | 30 January 2008 at 14:18
she should do whatever she feels she wants to and we should be supportive of her decision isnt that what the sisterhood is all about ! only she knows if she can forgive and forget. forgiving is easy its the forgeting thats going to be hard and i dont think the world will let them somehow. good luck though
Posted by: carol | 30 January 2008 at 14:16
she should do whatever she feels she wants to and we should be supportive of her decision isnt that what the sisterhood is all about ! only she knows if she can forgive and forget. forgiving is easy its the forgeting thats going to be hard and i dont think the world will let them somehow. good luck though
Posted by: carol | 30 January 2008 at 14:14
He's about as reliable as an ex-Arsenal defender - bolshie little b******. Once a cheat always a cheat!
Posted by: | 30 January 2008 at 13:58
She should dump him. Unlike most other WAGS she's got her own career and dosh. She doesn't need the aggro this charmless oik gives her.
Posted by: Caz | 30 January 2008 at 13:56
A typical example of the male/female divide, well in some ways, I say what he did was terrible but it feels like he is being demonised, he MIGHT though I doubt be innocent. I found it hilarious on the article the woman goes "oh I slept with him knowing he was married, he was crap in bed and im sorry for his wife" if she she was so sorry why did she do it, fame wanting slapper that she was.
Most of my male AND female friends are shocked, I mean to cheat on a stunning nice girl to go to a skanky slapper who isnt even attractive!
Posted by: Ryouga | 30 January 2008 at 13:46
Dump him! If he gets away with it once then he'll keep doing it. Once a cheat always a cheat!
Posted by: angie | 30 January 2008 at 13:34
I was with a footballer, Not a high rated one such as ashley... I was with someone from Barnsley and he cheated on me. I forgave him (like a stupid woman) but then 2 years later caught him in bed with my so called mate. They both thought it was hillarious! They are a waste of space. I later found out that this was the third person he had cheated on me with. He tried begging me back afetr that but i told him where to go. He is still with her now and he has cheated on her. He cheated on her with me after we had a drunken night - once a cheat always a cheat!!!
Posted by: Nikki | 30 January 2008 at 12:28
a baby will pop along next if she's anything like posh! everytimes becks was caught out another baby popped along. don't go the same way cheryl ditch him he'll never change.
Posted by: katie | 30 January 2008 at 10:04
If cheryl forgives and trys to forget then she will be doing what a million woman have done before her and a million will do after her. until you experience it you never know how you will react, you only know how you think you would react!
Posted by: Lea | 29 January 2008 at 17:05
I personally think that although he is a cheat and will do it again, Cheryl will like most woman have in the past forgive him but once the trust has gone she will always be wondering if he is cheating or lying is she cannot get hold of him, and in the end he will do it again, thats men for you, it does not matter what anyone says it is her choice in the end, but if she is sensible she will see through him and in the end get rid.
Posted by: Susan | 29 January 2008 at 14:53
I would get rid before it's to late ie no kids to think of as yet.
Posted by: Footballer's nothing special | 29 January 2008 at 14:33
Its their lives and if Cheryl wants to put up with that then thats upto her at the end of the day, but its changed my view of her as a person. I thought she was a role model to women by making statments like if cole either cheated i'd walk, but it must have been all words as she is not walking, she has now done what all the other WAGS do.....
Posted by: Sarah Staines | 29 January 2008 at 13:43
What do I think! For heavens sake just leave them to solve their relaonship issues in peace. The media and the public should stay out of it. that's what I think.
Posted by: Zola | 29 January 2008 at 13:32
once a cheat always a cheat, if you take him back he will know that he can get away with it and will continue to use you as a door mat!!Get out with your head held high and your self respect woman.
Posted by: leonnie | 29 January 2008 at 13:25
Hear,hear Gillian. The fact is he went back to this womens house with the intention to rattle her. Now whether or not he couldn't is besides the point!!!!
Kick him to the kerb.
Posted by: sense | 29 January 2008 at 12:08
get rid of him. always wondered what she saw in him. the hairdresser says he's not well endowed, that should be proof he did it! cheryl thinks he can't perform when drunk, so she's sticking by him, but come on, he's married, he shouldn't be anywhere near another female, kissing is still CHEATING, so kick him to the gutter where he belongs!
Posted by: gillian | 29 January 2008 at 11:38
leave them alone and let them sort themselves out not with everyone putting in their thoughts its a very personal thing that only the two of them can sort out, My advise is don't listen to anyone and go by your own instinct
Posted by: lynne | 29 January 2008 at 09:28
I can`t say that i`m a great fan of Cheryl, but she didn`t deserve what that vile idiot of a husband did to her. All these stupid people who have posted comments about her only being with him for his money- she`s got plently of her own!!!! She doesn`t need his money and never has done. She`s still with him because she loves him and doesn`t want to let go. I hope she finds the strength to ditch the mug, because he`s done it once and he`ll do it again.
Posted by: Nicky | 29 January 2008 at 09:08
What if he has picked up STI get yourself tested.
He is nothing but scum like the girl he been with DUMP HIM NOW !!!! you are a good looking girl move on
Posted by: jerry bel | 29 January 2008 at 07:46